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If… then…: teaching children to reason through everyday moments

A lit lamp, a star-shaped key and an open star-shaped lock.

"If it rains, we'll need umbrellas." "If you put the ice cream in the sun, it will melt." Children hear sentences like these all day. Each one connects a condition to a result, and that connection is at the heart of reasoning. With a few questions, everyday moments can turn "if… then…" from something children hear into something they think with.

What if-then reasoning is

If-then reasoning links a condition or a cause to what follows from it: if the light is red, then cars stop. It lets children predict what will happen, plan ahead and explain why something happened.

It also has a subtle side. "If it rains, the ground gets wet" is true. But wet ground doesn't always mean it rained: someone might have watered the garden. Learning to ask "Could there be another reason?" is an important step in careful thinking.

Everyday moments for if-then questions

Moment Questions to ask
Getting dressed "If it's cold outside, what do we need?"
On the way somewhere "If the light turns red, what will the cars do?"
Cooking "If we leave the butter out, what will happen to it?"
Playing "If you build the tower on the cushion, will it stand?"
Plants and pets "If we forget to water the plant, what might happen?"

Ask before you explain. Let your child make a guess first, even a wrong one.

Predict, test, explain

Small experiments turn if-then questions into something your child can check:

  1. Predict. "What do you think will happen if...?"
  2. Test. Try it safely together.
  3. Compare. Was the guess right? What was different?
  4. Explain. "Why do you think that happened?"

Ideas for simple experiments:

  • Sink or float. If we put the spoon, the cork and the leaf in water, which will float?
  • Ice. If we put one ice cube in the sun and one in the shade, which melts first?
  • Ramp. If we make the ramp higher, will the toy car go farther?
  • Shadows. If we move the torch closer, what happens to the shadow?

A wrong prediction isn't a failure. It is the most interesting moment: "Hmm, the cork floated. Why might that be?"

Reasoning games

  1. If-then story chain. Start a story with "If the cat wakes up..." Your child continues with "then...", and the next person adds a new "if". See where the chain goes.
  2. Conditional moves. Give instructions with a condition: "If you're wearing something blue, touch your nose. If you have a sock with stripes, jump twice."
  3. Rule detective. Secretly choose a rule, such as "if it's a fruit, I clap". Name things one by one and clap when it fits. Your child guesses the rule.
  4. What could have happened? Show a result and think backwards: "The cookies are gone and there are crumbs on the floor. What could have happened?" Look for more than one possibility.
  5. Because and so. Take turns finishing sentences: "The plant grew tall because..." "It started to rain, so..."

For older children

  • Always, sometimes, never. "If it's a bird, it can fly. Always, sometimes or never?" (Sometimes: some birds can't fly.)
  • Unless. "We'll go to the park unless it rains." What has to happen for the plan to change?
  • Two conditions. "If it's sunny and it's the weekend, we'll go to the beach. It's sunny but it's Tuesday. Do we go?"

Keep it light

  • Ask, don't quiz. One or two questions at the right moment are enough.
  • Accept surprising answers and ask how your child got there.
  • Many if-then sentences children hear are about consequences: "If you don't tidy up, then..." Balance them with curious ones: "If we mix these two colours, what do you think we'll get?"

In Dologi, "Who lives where?" puzzles give a few clue cards, and children use them to work out which house belongs to each robot.

In short

  • If-then reasoning links a condition to a result, and helps children predict, plan and explain.
  • Everyday moments such as dressing, cooking and playing are full of if-then questions.
  • Predict, test, compare and explain: a wrong guess is the most interesting part.
  • Thinking backwards from a result, and asking "could there be another reason?", builds careful thinking.

Read more: Critical thinking for children: when your child asks "why?" all day long